GREAT SOUTHERN BANCORP, INC. STOCK APPRECIATION RIGHT AWARD AGREEMENT [STOCK SETTLED]

Exhibit 10.4

GREAT SOUTHERN BANCORP, INC.

2013 EQUITY INCENTIVE PLAN

STOCK APPRECIATION RIGHT AWARD

AGREEMENT [STOCK SETTLED]

SAR No. _______________ Grant Date: _______________

This Stock Appreciation Right Award (“SAR”) is granted by Great Southern Bancorp, Inc. (“Corporation” or “Great Southern”) to [Name] (“SAR Holder”) in accordance with the terms of this Stock Appreciation Right Award Agreement (“Agreement”) and subject to the provisions of the Great Southern Bancorp, Inc. 2013 Equity Incentive Plan, as amended from time to time (“Plan”).  The Plan is incorporated herein by reference.

1.   SAR Award.  The Corporation grants to SAR Holder SARs to purchase [Number] Shares at an Exercise Price of $[Number] per Share.  Each SAR gives the SAR Holder a right to receive a payment in Shares with an aggregate Fair Market Value on the exercise date equal to the amount by which the Fair Market Value of a Share on the exercise date exceeds the Exercise Price of the SAR.  No fractional shares or cash in lieu of fractional shares shall be issued.  These SARs are subject to forfeiture and to limits on transferability, as provided in Sections 5 and 6 of this Agreement and in Article VI of the Plan.

2.   Vesting Dates:  The SARs shall vest as follows, subject to earlier vesting in the event of a termination of Service as provided in Section 6 or a Change in Control as provided in Section 7:

	SARs for
Vesting Date	Number of Shares Vesting

3.   Exercise:  The SAR Holder (or in the case of the death of the SAR Holder, the designated legal representative or heir of the SAR Holder) may exercise the SARs during the Exercise Period by giving written notice to the Committee in the form required by the Committee (“Exercise Notice”).  The Exercise Notice must specify the number of Shares to be purchased, which shall be at least 100 unless fewer shares remain unexercised.  The exercise date is the date the Exercise Notice is received by the Corporation.  The Exercise Period commences on the Vesting Date and expires at 5:00 p.m., Springfield, Missouri time, on the date 10 years after the Grant Date, such later time and date being hereinafter referred to as the “Expiration Date,” subject to earlier expiration in the event of a termination of Service as provided in Section 6.  Any SARs not exercised as of the close

of business on the last day of the Exercise Period shall be canceled without consideration at that time.

4.   Related Awards:  These SARs [are not related to any other Award under the Plan.] or [are related to stock options granted on the Grant Date and designated ISO or NQSO Nos. ___.  To the extent any of the related stock options are exercised, the SARs shall terminate with respect to the same number of Shares.]

5.   Transferability.  The SAR Holder may not sell, assign, transfer, pledge or otherwise encumber any SARs, except in the event of the SAR Holder’s death, by will or by the laws of descent and distribution or pursuant to a Domestic Relations Order.  The Committee, in its sole and absolute discretion, may allow the SAR Holder to transfer one or more SARs to the SAR Holder’s Family Members, as provided in the Plan.

6.   Termination of Service.  If the SAR Holder terminates Service for any reason other than in connection with a Change in Control or the death or Disability of the SAR Holder, any SARs that have not vested as of the date of that termination shall be forfeited to the Corporation, and the Exercise Period of any vested SARs shall expire three months after that termination of Service (but in no event after the Expiration Date), except in the case of a Termination for Cause, in which case all SARS held by the SAR Holder shall expire immediately.  If the SAR Holder’s Service terminates on account of the SAR Holder’s death or Disability, the Vesting Date for all SARs that have not vested or been forfeited shall be accelerated to the date of that termination of Service, and the Exercise Period of all SARs shall expire one year after that termination of Service (but in no event after the Expiration Date). [Post-termination exercise period may be modified at Committee’s election except with respect to a Termination for Cause.]

7.   Effect of Change in Control.  Upon a Change in Control, the Vesting Date for all SARs that have not vested or been forfeited shall be accelerated to the date of the earliest event constituting a Change in Control.

8.   SAR Holder’s Rights.  The SARs awarded hereby do not entitle the SAR Holder to any rights of a stockholder of the Corporation.

9.   Delivery of Shares to SAR Holder.  Promptly after receipt of an Exercise Notice, the Corporation shall issue and deliver to the SAR Holder (or other person validly exercising the SAR) a certificate or certificates representing the Shares of Common Stock being purchased, or evidence of the issuance of such Shares in book-entry form, registered in the name of the SAR Holder (or such other person), or, upon request, in the name of the SAR Holder (or such other person) and in the name of another person in such form of joint ownership as requested by the SAR Holder (or such other person) pursuant to applicable state law.  The Corporation’s obligation to deliver a stock certificate or evidence of the issuance of Shares in book-entry form for Shares purchased upon the exercise of an SAR can be conditioned upon the receipt of a representation of investment intent from the SAR Holder (or the SAR Holder’s Beneficiary) in such form as the Committee requires.  The Corporation shall not be required to deliver stock certificates or evidence of the issuance of Shares in book-entry form for Shares purchased prior to: (a)

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the listing of those Shares on the Nasdaq; or (b) the completion of any registration or qualification of those Shares required under applicable law.

10.   Adjustments in Shares.  In the event of any recapitalization, forward or reverse stock split, reorganization, merger, consolidation, spin-off, combination, exchange of Shares or other securities, stock dividend, special or recurring dividend or distribution, liquidation, dissolution or other similar corporate transaction or event, the Committee, in its sole discretion, shall adjust the number of Shares or class of securities of the Corporation covered by the SARs or the Exercise Price of the SARs.  The SAR Holder agrees to execute any documents required by the Committee in connection with an adjustment under this Section 10.

11.   Tax Withholding.  The Corporation shall have the right to require the SAR Holder to pay to the Corporation the amount of any tax that the Corporation is required to withhold with respect to such Shares, or in lieu thereof, to retain or sell without notice, a sufficient number of Shares to cover the minimum amount required to be withheld.

12.   Plan and Committee Decisions are Controlling.  This Agreement, the award of SARs to the SAR Holder and the issuance of Shares upon the exercise of the SARs are subject in all respects to the provisions of the Plan, which are controlling.  Capitalized terms herein not defined in this Agreement shall have the meaning ascribed to them in the Plan.  All decisions, determinations and interpretations by the Committee respecting the Plan, this Agreement, the award of SARs or the issuance of Shares upon the exercise of the SARs shall be binding and conclusive upon the SAR Holder, any Beneficiary of the SAR Holder or the legal representative thereof.

13.   SAR Holder’s Employment.  Nothing in this Agreement shall limit the right of the Corporation or any of its Affiliates to terminate the SAR Holder’s service or employment as a director, advisory director, director emeritus, officer or employee, or otherwise impose upon the Corporation or any of its Affiliates any obligation to employ or accept the services or employment of the SAR Holder.

14.   Tax Status.  The SARs are intended to comply with the provisions of Treasury Regulations Section 1.409A-1(b)(5)(i)(B), so as to not be subject to Section 409A of the Code.

15.   Amendment.  The Committee may waive any conditions of or rights of the Corporation or modify or amend the terms of this Agreement; provided, however, that the Committee may not amend, alter, suspend, discontinue or terminate any provision of this Agreement if such action may adversely affect the SAR Holder without the SAR Holder’s written consent.  To the extent permitted by applicable laws and regulations, the Committee shall have the authority, in its sole discretion but with the permission of the SAR Holder, to accelerate the vesting of the Shares or remove any other restrictions imposed on the SAR Holder with respect to the Shares, whenever the Committee may determine that such action is appropriate.

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16.   Nondisclosure of Confidential Information and Non-Solicitation.  Information concerning any Great Southern customer or the business matters of Great Southern (including any of its subsidiaries and affiliates) learned or obtained as a result of employment with Great Southern is privileged, private, and confidential.  The SAR Holder agrees to protect all such information and not disclose it to any unauthorized persons, either during or after employment.  Furthermore, the SAR Holder understands that any password and/or security code issued to allow access to designated areas of Great Southern, including any computer system(s), is also to be treated as privileged, private, and confidential, and must not be disclosed to any unauthorized persons, either during or after employment.  The SAR Holder understands that disregard of this Agreement would damage Great Southern, will result in disciplinary action up to and including termination, and may also be a violation of State and/or Federal law or regulation. The SAR Holder also agrees that, upon leaving employment with Great Southern, for whatever reason, whether voluntary or involuntary, the SAR Holder will not keep, take, or divulge to any individual or entity information relating to customers or the business matters of Great Southern.  The SAR Holder agrees that, for a period of three (3) years from the date of such termination of employment, he/she will not solicit or service, either directly or indirectly, any Great Southern customer where information about the customer was obtained through employment with Great Southern. The SAR Holder further agrees that, for one (1) year following his/her separation from employment with Great Southern, for whatever reason, whether voluntary or involuntary, the SAR Holder will not solicit, recruit, hire, or otherwise interfere with the employment of any employee of Great Southern. Should the SAR Holder breach this Agreement either during or after employment, Great Southern shall be entitled to obtain injunctive relief, and also to recover from the SAR Holder any damages caused by such breach, and all costs associated with enforcement of this Agreement, including, but not limited to, reasonable attorneys’ fees and expenses.

17.   SAR Holder Acceptance.  The SAR Holder shall signify acceptance of the terms and conditions of this Agreement and acknowledge receipt of a copy of the Plan by signing in the space provided below and returning the signed copy to the Corporation.

[Signature page follows]

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IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have caused this Agreement to be executed as of the date first above written.

		GREAT SOUTHERN BANCORP, INC.
		By	________________________________
		Its	________________________________
		ACCEPTED BY SAR HOLDER
		___________________________________
		(Signature)
		___________________________________
		(Print Name)
		___________________________________
		(Street Address)
		___________________________________
		(City, State & Zip Code)