Amendment to Participation Agreement Among ING Partners, Inc. ING Life Insurance and Annuity Company ING Financial Advisers, LLC and Reliastar Life Insurance Company of New York

Exhibit 99-B.8.10

Amendment to Participation Agreement

Among

ING Partners, Inc.

ING Life Insurance and Annuity Company

ING Financial Advisers, LLC

and

Reliastar Life Insurance Company of New York

This Amendment is dated as of 29th day of April, 2005 by and between ING Partners, Inc. (the
“Fund”), ING Life Insurance and Annuity Company (the “Adviser”), ING Financial Advisers, LLC (the
“Distributor”) and Reliastar Life Insurance Company of New York (the “Company”) (collectively, the
“Parties”).

WHEREAS, the Parties entered into a Participation Agreement on December 6, 2001 (the
“Agreement”) and subsequently amended the Agreement on March 13, 2002, May 1, 2003 and November
1, 2004;

WHEREAS, the Parties desire to further amend said Agreement in the manner hereinafter set forth;

NOW THEREFORE, the parties hereby amend the Agreement in the following form:

1.	By replacing the existing Schedule B with the Amended Schedule B attached hereto.
2.	All of the other provisions contained in the Agreement shall remain in full force and effect.

IN WITNESS WHEREOF, the parties hereto have caused this instrument to be executed by their
duly authorized signatories as of the date and year first above written.

ING Partners, Inc.		ING Life Insurance and Annuity Company
By:	\s\ Xxxxxx X. Naka	By:	\s\ Xxxxxx X. Xxxxxxxxxxx
	Xxxxxx X. Naka		Xxxxxx X. Xxxxxxxxxxx
	Senior Vice President		Vice President
ING Financial Advisers, LLC		Reliastar Life Insurance Company of New
		York
By:	\s\ Terran X. Xxxxx	By:	\s\ Xxxxxx X. Xxxxxxxxxxx
Name:	Terran X. Xxxxx		Xxxxxx X. Xxxxxxxxxxx
Title:	Vice President, Advisory Services		Vice President

AMENDED SCHEDULE B

ING Partners, Inc.
Designated Portfolios

ING American Century Large Company Value Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING American Century Select Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING American Century Small Cap Value Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Baron Small Cap Growth Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Fidelity® VIP Contrafund® Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Fidelity® VIP Equity-Income Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Fidelity® VIP Growth Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Fidelity® VIP Mid Cap Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Fundamental Research Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Xxxxxxx Xxxxx® Capital Growth Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Xxxxxxx Sachs® Core Equity Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING JPMorgan Xxxxxxx International Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING JPMorgan Mid Cap Value Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING MFS Capital Opportunities Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING OpCap Balanced Value Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Xxxxxxxxxxx Global Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Xxxxxxxxxxx Strategic Income Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING PIMCO Total Return Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Salomon Brothers Aggressive Growth Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Salomon Brothers Fundamental Value Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Salomon Brothers Large Cap Growth Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Solution 2015 Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Solution 2025 Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Solution 2035 Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Solution 2045 Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Solution Income Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING X. Xxxx Price Diversified Mid Cap Growth Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING X. Xxxx Price Growth Equity Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING UBS U.S. Large Cap Equity Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Xxx Xxxxxx Xxxxxxxx Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class
ING Xxx Xxxxxx Equity and Income Portfolio – Initial, Adviser and Service Class

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*Xxxxxxx Xxxxx® is a registered service xxxx of Xxxxxxx, Xxxxx & Co., and it is used by agreement with
Xxxxxxx, Sachs & Co.
** Fidelity® and Contrafund® are registered trademarks of FMR Corp.

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